Had to call H about business and at the end of the conversation he said "So did D talked to you about our trip?" I said "not much". He said she didn't tell you any details of what we did? Did she tell you about the bear?....and he goes on excitedly to tell me the story. Again I was cool and didn't ask any questions or in any way encouraged him to continue. If I encouraged him he would go on and on. I just said, no D didn't tell me, I guess she doesn't feel comfortable talking to me about the time you had together. He said "I guess". I finished the call.

BTW D did tell me some parts of the trip including that they missed horseback riding on the day they arrived, because "dad got lost getting there". (His sense of orientation has really gone down the hill in the past few years...I've read somewhere that it happens due to hormonal changes as men age)

I'm surprised that he felt the need to talk to me about the wonderful time that they had without me. It wasn't like he was trying to rub it in in a mean way, it was more like he wanted to share it with me and wanted my approval that he did a good job organizing that.

And BTW he forgot about the counseling appointment that he'd made for tomorrow. He wanted to schedule a business meeting with me so I had to tell him. He just forgot....what else is new

M53 H54 D17
M33Y T38Y
Bomb OW 09/09
OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10
WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10
Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO