Well I talked to her mom about it, and got 2000% assurance that the news would stay between the parents.

Her mom was so shocked and disgusted.

I then told my family.

Now I am wanting to just let the 2 men know that I know what has happened, and how irresponsible of them it was. NO threats, nothing of that sort. Just a good honest dressing down of how they could have been better men.

Anyone think that is an extremely bad idea? I'm thinking the current guy she is involved with might lose his interest and magic should he find out I know EVERYTHING.

Let's say the kind of job he has HIGHLY FROWNS on adultery, affairs ect.

As for the first guy, I am hesitant about contacting his wife. I may contact HIM directly, and see if he will admit to it. If he is honest I will ASSURE him I won't tell his wife. He is not currently involved with my wife, but should he become again, I will in fact expose him and protect his wife.


Me - 32
Her -30
Married - 7 Years
Together - 9 Years
No Kids
05/21 - Bomb
6/8 - Exposed
7/9 - Re-Exposed
06/11 - She Filed