Question

[angierenee]

All communication has stopped between him and I he ignores my existence even when I walk by.

I know I need to get legal help, but I am so strapped financially I cant afford to get one yet. There is one place where they do a sliding scale...but it is hard because I need to take time off work and I can't afford to take too much time off without the risk of losing my job..

Honestly the only thing he has done is buy my daughter a toy here and there...Is this enough to get custody of my daughter. I dont want to have to bring up the fact that he smokes pot everyday...Or should I? He has scared me by saying he is going to take my daughter away from me...by bringing up my past drug use...but I have been clean and sober for 2 years. and he cant respect that enough to keep pot out of the house because he doesnt consider that a drug. I am worried that if I bring up the pot he will bring up my past.

I told him I would take random drug tests,,,, and he said he would too, but he'll drink a detox drink to make his test come out clean so I have nothing. I recorded his pot stash and his bong and showed where he keeps his pot and bong...but I am worried if I use this evidence it is going to back fire