Libby, very strange with the neighbor, but so MLC. Talking to her about personal things and telling her that he is leaving you before he told you? In his confusion he must have been looking for a sympathetic "friend" that wouldn't judge him or try to talk him out of it.
After the bomb I found on H's computer a list that he'd made before I found out about OW. It was a summary of personality traits as per my astrological sign...I guess he was trying to find some answers based on astrology????
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO