My attitude is so much more positive these days. I am so glad to have a great attorney that is taking away alot of my stress with documents and seems to care.
The position that I interviewed for will start very soon, and the interviewers seemed very impressed by me. I was the last person to interview for the job. So now they can start the decision making process. I told them before I left that I was interested in this opportunity.
I was so relaxed and up for the challenge today. I hope for the best.
I have two opportunities, so I will let everyone know the results as soon as I do.
I just completed my Thank You letters, and they are very good too.
I am having a good day, and I will not let anything change.
Thanks for the encouragement!
Last edited by LSG; 06/08/1006:06 PM.
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She actually asked me if I wanted something at McDonalds
Do you understand why?
See the connection between your actions lately and the change in her behavior.
You are TCBing now and she is noticing. She is starting to respect you again.
You will be fine now. You are living for yourself and not to seek her approval.
Cheers
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
It is not that I am afraid of her. I do not want her and the OM to sabotage my opportunity since it is at the same company. I am protecting myself for position that I have wanted for so long. I do not plan to have anyone cost me that opportunity. I plan to keep it from for awhile to establish myself with people that will not allow her and OM to screw up something I want for myself so bad.
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M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
I'd keep TCB'ing and not worry about letting her know if you work at the same company with her or not. Let her find that out on her own at the lastest possible moment.
I agree that you saw her but did not stir anything up with her, I thought it was a good move. Your still getting your $hit together.
Thanks for clarifying what TCBing meant. I understand it now.
I do not plan to tell her if I am hired for awhile.
I am working on getting my sh!t together, but I have lot more to go. I have started to do it though.
Thank guys!
Your going to build confidence by the day. Make sure you do some things for yourself, ontop of TCB'ing it. I wouldn't tell her I got that job, just let her see me one day and maybe the first time keep walking so she can think your someone who looks like her husband. That'll freak her out.
I do little things for myself. The job will be a big thing for me. I do not plan to tell her until I am ready too. She does not need to know about it. I will ask my attorney if I should or not. I do need to provide for full disclosure, but I don't need to tell her for a week or two.
Good idea about walking right past her if I do see her. I am sure she will know it is me. We still live together.
Keep the ideas flowing!
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