Anger means she still is emotionally involved with you. Numb is bad means she has shut her emotions off to you. Men don't like negative emotions that's why we want to fix things, avoid them or move on. Women and negative emotions (anger) means she has something she is feeling and wants to discuss with you. Solution - don't worry about how she feels it will change once she can vent it with you. She wants to know you are tough enough to handle her emotions. Let her know when something bad happens its you letting her into your day, she wants to know you can handle problems. In the past how did you handle problems with her?
Keep her informed of how your son is doing and how you are dealing with it. Keep her up to speed on the appraisers and how you are getting the house ready to sell. Lead it's attractive.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.