I do. It has been 30 months for me if it makes you feel better and not because I think of my ex. I want to feel good as just me and of course to have my kids be okay with it. So many people(seems to be guys mostly) just want to stop hurting so they jump in feet first before checking how deep the water is.
Know yourself, love yourself and some lucky, amazing woman will find you.
kat
I agree entirely Kat, a lot of guys feel an intense imasculation by being ditched, they need the validation of someone, anyone wanting them. Guys are also brought up to take action and fix things, so we jump in and for a bit it feels good but...it usually turns out badly.