My Husband Just Left Me

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I have a feeling things could get really awkward. I'm going to be showing up alone. What am I supposed to say when people ask where he is? I thought I would just say "he drove separately". I'm just not sure the wedding is the most appropriate place to start telling people we are separated. I don't want to stress out the bride and groom who may worry becuase they sat us at the same table.

If you have so many concerns, you should just wear the wedding ring. You are still married until the divorce if finalized. You don't have to make a big deal about it even if STBX asks. Just make a short response.

For me, I will wear my wedding ring until the D is finalized with my W.

It is your choice what you decide, but I just think you should try not to think too much about "what ifs."

Have a good time at the wedding and show the person that you are now, and just enjoy yourself!