First wrong simply because you might be wrong about OM.
I have a good friend that says the same thing about the possibility of the OM being in the picture. I guess it is possible that he is not in the picture but sure does feel like it.
It would be the worst case scenario if he was....so if I can stomach that then anything less is a piece of cake??? Whatever the case may be I am pretty detatched and can talk about it without any real feelings one way or the other.
This has been a significant change for me in that I now know I can treat her the same now no matter what. I was in that 2 week cycle also...where I would let my guard down get my expectations up, get hurt and say something, usually about her shortcomings with the kids. I am into the third week and have not said anything critical since May 21, although there have been opportunities for me to mess up and open my mouth.
Originally Posted By: Jack_Three_Beans
Being a better looking option isn't really about competeing with him...it is just looking good when she wakes the f up.
Over the past 2 months she has stirred but definitely still has her head firmly planted in her arse. The work on being the better option is never finished whether they come back or not.
Nickel for you Jack on the Squirrel thing, check is in the mail.
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