I do. It has been 30 months for me if it makes you feel better and not because I think of my ex. I want to feel good as just me and of course to have my kids be okay with it. So many people(seems to be guys mostly) just want to stop hurting so they jump in feet first before checking how deep the water is.
Know yourself, love yourself and some lucky, amazing woman will find you.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory