I for one can't do the friends with benefits. I still want it to mean something. I am just that kind of girl. I have only had the actual act with 2 guys but ran around a few bases with some others. I don't know what to tell you to do to deal with it. I would say though to really look at what you want...some meaningless fun or a relationship.

kat

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