My only reservation with exposing to BF pupper is that if that relationship is not that committed he may just walk out on her...

This is going to put OW 100% into the face of WS here and he will be less likley to come home.

If OW and her BF are living together, have kids, and been with each other for ten years (ie are married) then yes, expose there.

I would definitely expose in the workplace if you think it will make a difference.

He gets fired?

That's GOOD... no more workplace or OW... if they BOTH get fired, I think that wouold definitely put an end to this nonsense in a snap!

Livid? yes he will be, but he's also unemployed so he'll be desperate as well... and THEN you expose to OW BF and hit her on BOTH SIDES

OW loses her job, comes home and finds out her BF has packed her bags and put them on teh front walkway... BOOM!

THAT is how its done.