All in all it sounded like a good interaction. She thinks she's going to come back home to you arguing like I mentioned.
However, you shouldn't have said this..."but i do want you to come home."
It's not up to you whether or not she wishes to come home. Make sure in the future you don't mention what you want to her because they are contrary to what she wants.
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How will she see changes in me if we dont see each other except for when she picks up our daughter or something similar and we havent been talking to each other except to say goodnight to our daughter and the one time she came by to discuss what we will do with our daughter?
Trust me, TLO, she will know. Women keep tabs on their guys, and she will hear about how you are doing. She will damned near GRILL people to find out!!
Trust me, TLO, she will know. Women keep tabs on their guys, and she will hear about how you are doing. She will damned near GRILL people to find out!!
Puppy
Two thumbs up on this, Pup (or two PAWS up?). She will know. Greek
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It's not up to you whether or not she wishes to come home.
It most certainly is.
remember when you first met your girlfriend you were doing it in the backseat, the kitchen, on swingsets, maybe even on those steel guard rails on the side of the road. you could not get enough of eachother. there was something about you she wished she could keep getting more of.
It is completely up to you to be the person she wishes would take her back now. The allure of the rest of the world is too great. The parties rock, the attention is stimulating, telling people about yourself and finding out new and interesting things about other people is an ego boost. You need to be more enticing than that.
What is the other alternative to that? You beg her to come home, she sits on the couch giving you blank stares and mean looks, and short answers like she could care less, then goes off to do things by herself every chance she can. That is not a solution that is a greater problem.
What i really want to know the most, is what kind of contact should I initiate with her if at all?
Like earlier she didnt show up to a monthly meeting for a local group we belong to. I sent her a text message saying "not very many people showed up for the XYZ meeting today"
