I don't know why it is, but when I speak to my W on the phone, she is pleasant and just like her old self. In person, if I see that at all, it is for only like the first few minutes in my presence.
The last couple of days she's posted things on FB which in the past would make me say, "Wow. Maybe she gets it now and is coming around." But now I don't even care. I removed the tag in my profile on the site that showed I was married to her.
Just got off the phone with an attorney recommended to me by a lawyer friend who had his dissolution done with the same guy. It was a very good discussion, helped me understand some logistics that I was concerned about. He's sending me his firm's questionnaire to get started with the dissolution process. Funny how I have no more emotional reaction to this than if I was paying the electric bill. "I am at peace with it" is the only way to describe the feeling.
WAW Using God Me-43 W-40 M-14 S-11 S-9 D-7 EABomb 5/09 Separated 12/09
