Well here I am now. Moved over from DBD

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I will be 100% honest with you kat,

What I am looking for is a friend to be there while I ride this thing out and my goal is indiference towards my XW. I have this right now.

But I want to go one notch more than that. I want a FWB. I miss the sex and the emotional connection that comes with it.
Sorry, but I am just a typical man with needs.

Ironically my friend wants almost the same thing. She wants me as a friend but she also enjoys sex. But she wants to date other men and enjoys that lifestyle. Her fear is that having sex with me would endanger our friendship.

I OTOH prefer a monogamouse relationship and she is steadfast against that. So I am forced to look elsewhere for that type of relationship and have no luck so far.

Sorry if I am making this thread turn into a dating one. But since I have NC with XW my life pretty much consists of work, dating and going to clubs occasionally. I do NOT like my lifestyle now. I am working on changing this.