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I've been looking here for a while. Here's my story.
It all really started back at Christmas. We had a long talk about us and where we were. I had found some text messages that I didn't think were apprioate. Everything seemed good until 2/19/2010, when I again found some text that I didn't like. The wife finally told me she was unhappy and didn't know what she wanted. Took off her ring. On 2/22/2010, I started the Love Dare. Didn't really put my heart into it the first 34 days. On March 13, finally made her talk to me, said she wasn't happy, didn't love me, and wanted out. Said she had checked out on our marriage. I refocused on the Love Dare and started over. Put my whole heart into in my the next 40+ days. On May 23rd, she told me she wanted a divorce. It was time to move on. Said I was pressuring her, which I was, that is what the Love Dare does. No other talk about D until June 3rd. Still says she wants out. She still talks, has not moved out or upstairs, still sleeps in same bed, still is naked in the bathroom in the mornings. I have read DR and I really making moves to find myself, GAL, becoming happy and doing stuff for me. Read the 5 Love Languages. Yes, I was away off on her language. Quality Time-Conversion. I wouldn't really listening or talking to her. I was doing services for her, but when she was unappreiative, I would get pissed off and be resentful. She has started calling me and texting more. I don't call or text her unless she does first.