Yup, She's Having an Online Cybersex Affair

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1. OK, so I first confront HER?

You inform her that you know what she has been doing. Use Gucci's speech EXACTLY :"I have been doing some thinking and here is what I have decided. I have decided that you are right. This isn't working. I agree that we should separate and divorce. I think since you are having cyber sex and probably even an affair that you should move out. The sooner the better. I would like you to find a place to stay within a week."

2. I confront (via FB or text) this FB guy and old high school flame

3. I confront the FIRST guy from early May, and tell him I have him dead to rights with the logs and pictures

I think not but I'll defer to the experts on this one. My thought is that you don't lower yourself to acknowledge them.

4. I tell my parents and her parents

In the context of "I am filing for D and this is why." I say yes to this.

5. I disable her internet access and make it look like the router died.

Yes, disable her Internet but don't make it look like anything other than "You can be a ho on your own Internet acct. when you move out but you will not bring that garbage into the family home.)

6. I tell her she has 2 choices, stop the affair or MOVE OUT.

Nope. Not quite. She has to go. If, and only if, she asks for another chance do you tell her that she would have to publicly end the affair, agree to a full transparency agreement with you, and go to counseling. Then you will talk about working on the M.

She's done a lot of damage here. Not a good idea to let her off the hook for what she's done and has been doing, and not with just one man, but two (that you know of). And here's the thing - the REAL thing to watch out for going forward - SHE WILL DO IT RIGHT UNDER YOUR NOSE. BRAZEN.

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