1. OK, so I first confront HER?

2. I confront (via FB or text) this FB guy and old high school flame

3. I confront the FIRST guy from early May, and tell him I have him dead to rights with the logs and pictures

4. I tell my parents and her parents

5. I disable her internet access and make it look like the router died.

6. I tell her she has 2 choices, stop the affair or MOVE OUT.


Me - 32
Her -30
Married - 7 Years
Together - 9 Years
No Kids
05/21 - Bomb
6/8 - Exposed
7/9 - Re-Exposed
06/11 - She Filed