I've been reading "Hold Me Tight" and it makes a lot of sense as I really hate to blame. At the same time however, I'm just not getting what I need. Going to make a hard decision this weekend I think.
Sue Johnsons book really helped me understand that my need to be touched and held was normal and that I needed for my own health to make sure that I got the touching that I needed and to speak up to my wife about meeting my need for touch.
Good luck to you.
>43 years of marriage--My wife and I are now closer than we have been in decades. I believe that my SSM is over.
