One life / But we're not the same

[MichelleLT]

And it's not like I talk to them every day! I see them about 3 times a year, talk to them a few times more than that.

And that upsets me. Because his family are very nice people. I miss them. But our R has changed because of his decision to D.

You are SO right! He is playing the victim! I think he is saying (perhaps even believes) that the reason he doesn't have a good R with them is because they like me more than him!

OMG. He's their blood. They'll always support him (doesn't mean they approve of his decisions, but they'll always be there for him regardless). I've just managed to carve out and keep some friendships despite all the drama.