My husband, whom I've not seen in almost six weeks, just told a girlfriend that he thinks we'll be getting back together, that he misses me and loves me and thinks the separation was "a good kick in the ass" for me because I look so good and am so busy (whenever he goes by my house I'm not home.) In addition, his guru, a retired ski bum whose motto about women is "don't chase 'em, replace 'em," called me out of the blue the same day my husband talked with my friend and said that "after a separation, when the dust settles, sometimes people can get back together."
My husband has suddenly started sending me friendly, chatty emails full of questions and offers to use the car and help me with banking and suggestions about freetime activities I should try (by myself, presumably). I don't know what to do - I have thought that it's best to go dark for a while and I went to London for a week, but I wonder... when/how do you start to see and talk with one another again? Any suggestions?
Discovered OW1: 1/10, H refused to talk. H moved in w 1st OW: 3/10 H cheated on OW1: 12/10 H left OW1, moved in w OW2: 4/11 D: 9/11 Still miss H. Don't understand, H just left, never even talked w me.
