The Newcomers forums suggested I post over here, so here is my original topic. My last post in it contains everything I know to date about the affair(s).

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2016844#Post2016844

I think I have enough to confront her, but am not sure exactly how to do it. I kind of want to wait until tonight and catch more web traffic, or get a chance to look at her phone texts when she lets her guard down.

But I want to do it soon. I have enough to want to ask her to leave the house, shut down the internet, or expose the affair(s) entirely. BUT I want to force HER to tell her family.

Any suggestions?


Me - 32
Her -30
Married - 7 Years
Together - 9 Years
No Kids
05/21 - Bomb
6/8 - Exposed
7/9 - Re-Exposed
06/11 - She Filed