2 weeks left to DB

[newmama]

I think not giving a damn gives you more power -

detaching=not giving a damn! lol!

my opinion about the inistense on the surname- what is wrong with these people? If you and your WH divorced but your WH was willing to stay in the country, regulary be a part of your daughter's life would that change your opinion? I am being curious.

I just ask because if my WH took off and wanted to "drop in" every now and then I certainly would not have let my S have his surname!!!

Bo peep might work as an initial attempt when they still live with us. I mean that's why it's called Plan A and not The Plan. Plan B-separation and dark/dim is supposed to follow in 3 months time. (I don't know anymore- like Melody said, she thinks maybe spouses are like kids where one approach doesn't fit all!)