Possible EA - Need Advice

[newmama]

Melody if it is all overwhelming right now, the least you should do is expose to OW's bf at this point.

I was surprised to read that it is easier to bring a man back to the marriage. I haven't received that impression on these boards! but of course that is why we are on these boards- most of us- because our spouses are halfway out or all the way out the door.

So here is something I have observed (and maybe Puppy and Allen have seen it as well?) If the cheater hasn't ended the affair upon discovery, it is inevitable that MOST will threaten divorce. It is par for the course. What I would like to see is how many go through with it!