Personally I prefer the nice sweet guys. I would like if they were game for a bit of adventure but nothing "bad" perse. Here is why my "wants' get tricky. I don't need someone to take care of me but I want someone that could/wants to. I want someone that respects my freedom as I respect theirs. Maybe you were trying to take "care" too much.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
