Exactly, I am so glad I went full force on the incident between my daughter and OW's son. It scared ex and OW to death. Not so much that they care about my daughter, but they were afraid of what other's would think of them (superficiality). It is all about how they look on the outside instead of the real truth.

Ex is getting the message from me to leave me alone. I am again dark. He would love to have me available to him to be able to vent his garbage.

Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
01/16/11