The Court of King Caractacus

[JacT]

Lees they are more than clinically insane..Theyre f***** mad as hatters.They want to show the world how loved up they are when in fact they are looking like even bigger fools...they are trying to convince themselves this is real and it isnt.
The whole thing will go up like a nuclear bomb.You are a trillion times better than these people who consider themselves to be educated.Your W has many issues to deal with..you have to work hard at detaching.
That said you have to let the pain run its course..its another giant hurdle..they cant do anything more hurtful..someday it will be all over for them and you will be happy with all the things in life you dreamed of.You know where I am..

[avermont]

oh lees--you can see my thread and see me posting the same thing!

I know how much this hurts. I spent some time this weekend crying thinking about X and OW wedding.

Are you officially in D proceedings, or however GB dissolves a same-sex marriage? If you aren't divorced in September, will it be legal for X to marry OW?

The friends helping out just adds to the hurt. And, unfortunately, I know that feeling for real, too!

All I can say is I am surviving this--you can, too. I didn't want to survive for many months, but now I am peeking around the possibility of being glad that I did survive. And you will get there, too.

Plus you had a fabulous week of fabulous activities! Remember that--remember that your X is now mincing around in expensive shoes, and in no way having the fun you are! (if you had said kite-boarding, I would have gotten that).

Please hold on to every moment of fun and love you are having--you just wrote that good things are coming on fast and thick, remember? Think about that and try to pull your mind off X and OW.

And let me know when you settle in Scotland--I'm coming for a visit!

Keep posting--

((lees))

[lees]

I did aver - although I think the wedding thing is probably a bit more significant for you than me seeing as I don't want such a hideous woman back, so bigger hugs back to you.

We can't officialy be in any legal proceedings until we've been married for a year - which will be on 30th Aug. At that point she can file for a separation order, and after that we must be separated for 2 yrs before the civil partnership can be officially dissolved. Neither of us can legally enter another CP until this time. I expect they'll be having some kind of commitment ceremony, similar to what us gays used to do before CP came into being.

I am doing OK. Still mainly laughing at how ridiculous they are. It's really just the icing on the cake in proving their true substance. I am glad I'm out of it. I wish nothing to do with them, or any of the individuals which support such a foolish ceremony.

I on the other hand am looking forwards to some private golf tuition at the weekend from a rather attractive semi-pro golfer, a nice restaurant, an evening at the theatre to see Spamalot, and no doubt some beers and good times with her.

The only evidence remaining of my emotions regarding their silly demonstration is that I went and bought another big kite lol. Shopping therapy of the highest order!

[saffie]

The WAW and OW are "getting married" in September. We won't be divorced by then. The same friends that came to our wedding are providing the photography and other help.

Sounds like your W is a romance junkie - perhaps we should start a book on how many times she can get M'd before she is legally D'd?

(((((((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))))))))))))

[lees]

perhaps we should start a book on how many times she can get M'd before she is legally D'd?

I vote for 3. Any raise on that?


You're right saffie - she's exactly that. Not interested in anyone after the honeymoon period is over and real life sets in. Her history proves it, and she's never going to learn from it as long as she continues to jump from one relationship to the next with an affair as her usual exit strategy!

[JacT]

Saffie howz you doin.Howz the back? We were just sayin you have been quiet of late.
Lees these two take the biscuit...wonder who@ll cheat on who first?
im still convinced it could be a wind up.Have you heard any more from the inlaws?

[pearlharbr]

I am doing OK. Still mainly laughing at how ridiculous they are. It's really just the icing on the cake in proving their true substance. I am glad I'm out of it. I wish nothing to do with them, or any of the individuals which support such a foolish ceremony.

I on the other hand am looking forwards to some private golf tuition at the weekend from a rather attractive semi-pro golfer, a nice restaurant, an evening at the theatre to see Spamalot, and no doubt some beers and good times with her.

^^This sounds great! That's the attitude that will get you through this mess and out the other side a better person.

[lees]

I think the wife needs a new tag

IQ >140

EQ = 0

[pearlharbr]

Less time focusing on W, more time focusing on Lees!

[JacT]

I agree PH keep telling Lees that.They are a pair of headcases if they decide to rush in like fools let them.Lees you will have last laugh trust me..keep your chin in up.Back in Scotland in a few weeks, a trip with your friends here and youll be right as rain!((hugs))