Divorce in 1 month Help with exposing please need

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Getting ready to go to mediation for son2.We talk one on one for two hours with a mediator in the middle to observe and make shure we dont argue.
Im going to let the stbxw wife know that she is the one that caused all this.She was the won that ran a 100 miles for O/M that she is the one that is destroyung our family.

That she is the onr robbing our son of both his parents to get her emotinal needs met by O/M whan she has a good husband and family. I will let her know that i still belive in our family and our marrige. Im going Let her know that under no certain terms i will not fight for joint custody he and i dont need to pay the price for your acctions.
Im going to remind her of all the tuff times that we got through in the pace and we got through them and this is one of them times.
I will tell her that if she choose us that things could be better than before, if she chooses to keep up with what she wants then she is robing our son of his mother and father.


Just puting it all on paper now if any one has any sugestions on what to say to her and how to say it i will be on here for acouple of hours.