still separated, headed for D?

[newmama]

If my wedding ring didn't look like such a wedding ring I would wear it on my other hand! Don't know what I will do with it in the future.

FM- if you are reading this, I have been thinking about 2 things you posted:
1)about the danger of becoming deeply disappointed when hoping for an unrealistic outcome (can't remember the word)

just wanted to say that I am aware of that...have been thinking that it is realistic to know my odds are slim. This will help me over the next few weeks.

2) instead of issuing an ultimatum, to be the "going, going, gone" girl. I think that is what I am focusing on for these next few weeks.

thank you for sharing those perspectives.