My gut feeling tells me that this was the right thing to do. I miss my W terribly but I'm tired of feeling like a doormat right now.

I know that DR says that only one person may be working on the marriage while the spouse is set in their ways. I've been working on this for months and at times I see results but then I'm hit with another bomb. I start to lose faith in the system and get angry. As much as I try not to engage my W it seems to happen at times.

Today is a new day and I'm taking my life back.


Last edited by Fightingforher; 06/08/10 02:47 PM.

M: 36
W: 29
S: 2.5
EA: 2/2010 OM1
D Bomb: 3/2010
PA: 6/2010 OM2
W moved out 8/2010
Loc: DE, USA