I know it is early but I have been wanting a strawberry daiquiri so get hopping with the blender!
I think each person is a tad different. I didn't date for 1.5 years after the divorce. I wanted my kids to be good and me to be good before I even thought of bringing someone else into the mix. I actually tried to face some of my trouble areas like going to the movies alone. I do have a really good guy friend(read ex boyfriend) and we talk through a lot of stuff. Have dinner every couple of weeks. It really just helps to be a bit social and yet not have any expectations besides friendship.
As far as something more...I believe it is way too soon. Don't rush it.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory