In this case, you would say "I understand; thank you for being honest with me. I, however, cannot live in an open marriage where my wife puts her friendship -- assuming I believe you, and we both know you're lying to me right now -- ahead of her marriage. I guess I have some thinking to do."
I like that...and a check of the phone records this morning shows several texts between the two in the early morning while everyone was asleep.
Puppy Dog, my question is: after Sundays blowup and the letter I gave to WW, is it to early to try the above approach or should I wait until our next MC session?
How about something like "I understand you don't want to end your friendship with OM; thank you for being honest with me. I, however, cannot live in an open marriage where my wife puts her friendship -- assuming I believe you, and we both know you're lying to me right now -- ahead of her marriage. I guess I have some thinking to do."
Thank you all for your support
Last edited by loweinsd51; 06/08/1002:38 PM.
M-43 FWW-42 T 20 M 16 DD10 DD8 EA: 1/10 Informal separation: 6/11/2010 Headed for D: 7/6/2010 Piecing? 9/10/10
