It's not negative insight: the pattern they are locked in right now is negative and unhealthy.
This is true, but to touch on how you point that I've gone through this and should know, the man is hurting enough and doesn't need his W blasted all over the boards. Obviously, her mind is not in a stable place, but she didn't get there alone, she had the help of the man who loves her and his compassion in that is what disallows him to seperate himself from her during this crisis that she must deal with.
Does it make what she's done and doing right? No. However, as I have gone through this, and so has my (x)W, I have her insight to know that it is her conscience that is making her waffle as such, she just doesn't see any other way at the moment. And it will be that very same conscience that will finally bring clarity for her.
Me 35/XW 33 S13 & S12 M: 10/17/98 OM & S: 07/08 D final 06/09/09 12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing" 06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10 06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11
