What I'm gathering from your responses is it's all about setting the boundaries and then following through with the consequences.

Sandi...I was encouraged by the "you have the ability to make me love you again" but I think she is cake eating because she has said repeatedly "why should I give up friendship with OM...he is like a really good female friend and is like family to me...he understands me...I'm worried about him"

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M-43
FWW-42
T 20
M 16
DD10
DD8
EA: 1/10
Informal separation: 6/11/2010
Headed for D: 7/6/2010
Piecing? 9/10/10