2x4's taken, TimeHeals. Understand your point. What she said was "I need to do this for me (meaning herself)"

dd:
Thanks. I have been following your advise as much as possible. Would you be so kind as to elaborate here? I could definately use your insight.

H 51, W 46
no kids
T 22 years
M 17 years
ILBNILWY 2/10
1st D talk 6/10
partial recovery
W files D 5/11
long distance separation 8/11
moving forward on D 10/11
legal separation complete 1/2012