On the ring thing: I felt really horrible not wearing mine.. Then when my fingers became swollen with the pregnancy and post birth also, I just couldn't wear them. Now I wear them from time to time. I just love my rings, so reckon I'd wear them anyway... even post divorce. Maybe swapping hands or fingers, though.
Me 36; H 40 baby born in May M:13, T:15 Bomb (OW): Dec 09 began DBing: Feb WH overseas with OW old: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2027369#Post2027369
