This is code for, "I am really doing this for myself, but I don't want to be the bad guy here, and so I will tell you it is for you. Gee, I feel better already".
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Sounded heavily medicated, with slow speech. She recently adjusted her meds, which were really screwing her up
How terribly attractive.
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very concerned about me
Yes, she is so concerned about YOU that she is asking for a divorce.
She is concerned--really--about her own feelings of guilt.
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because I make her anxious.
She is so concerned about you that she tells you that you make her feel like crap. What's not to love about that?
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She is leaning heavily on the OM, who she maintains is one of her only friends, for emotional support.
She is so concered about you that you do not matter, but OM does. He's the only one in her life (aside from herself) that matters now.
At some point you have to ask yourself why you want somebody who is basically saying you do not matter (only OM and her guilt matter) to be living in the same house as you.
It's become thoughtlessly cruel and manipulative.
You need to stop allowing these kind of talks at any rate. The next time she tries to tell you what she is doing is for you and so on, just tell her "I don't really believe that" and walk away... unless you are ready to tell her to move out.
Last edited by TimeHeals; 06/08/1001:51 PM.
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