NO, you don't. Please don't get defensive, I'm not "accusing the rape victim" here -- just trying to understand the dynamics. Bottom line is, you probably have some responsibility in her getting to the "sexually frustrated" stage, but that DOES NOT GIVE HER THE EXCUSE TO CARRY ON A CYBERSEX AFFAIR, and then lie to you about it.
There are healthy, mature ways for couples to deal with their issues. She took the easy path. Time for QS to start valuing QS more than that, and to let her know that you value and respect yourself too much to put up with this kind of crap disrespect in your own home.
Just gather some more intel for the week, and we'll come up with a game plan. Do you think you can stay patient?
