The first thing you should do is shut down internet sevice to your home and her cellphone (if you pay those bills). I'll let the others help you elsewhere.
I am sorry and take care of yourself.
Agree with Sandy, but I would wait a week or so, and see if any additional useful intel turns up. Then you can shut 'er down, as there's no reason why you should financially enable her inappropriate behavior in your own home.
Just stay cool and gather your intel for now; Allen and I can help you with your "confront and expose" scripts when the time is nigh.
I'm sorry. I really do wish I was WRONG, but it's usually pretty easy to spot.
Can you tell us more about your marital sex life? Is yours a case of mis-matched libidos or any other substantive issues there?
