She said she didn't want to talk about it by text...meaning she wanted to have a conversation about it with you.
Definately. Not over text, phone, e-mail. Straight face to face and after some time has passed for BOTH of you to have processed everything on your own.
V1, you know, I sat there this morning having my coffee, and it was raining, chilly and just gloomy. The very same conditions that were in place 1 year ago tomorrow when our divorce went through. I have been going back and forth for a month on how to handle the day. And in doing so, created a tension with (x)W that was completely unneccessary.
Why?
Because this morning it hit me. Tomorrow is tomorrow. It hasn't happened yet. Today is all I need to concern myself with, for what I do today, is what determines how tomorrow may start, but not how it will end.
As for the significance of the day, tomorrow, well, much like my realization above, tomorrow is not a day of doom and gloom for what happened a year ago. Yet it is a day of victory for what has transpired since that day.
For you, for now, take advantage of every free moment you get for yourself. And, enjoy every moment you have with your kids. Live in today. Tmorrow has not happened yet, and yesterday is done.
Me 35/XW 33 S13 & S12 M: 10/17/98 OM & S: 07/08 D final 06/09/09 12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing" 06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10 06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11
