My H would not be jealous I don’t think. Curious maybe but jealous no.

I get attention from men, almost always the middle aged long married ones who’s ‘wives don’t understand them’ or whatever and I’m not going there, I’ve been on the other side of adultery and it’s no fun.

Plus I’ve stood for this M for a couple of years now and my H is the adulterous one not me. Maybe when I’m actually D I’ll get a new R, but can’t think of that now.

But newmama you’re right a bit of male attention would be good for the ego if nothing else.