Yup, She's Having an Online Cybersex Affair

[Quicksilver264]

One of the posters in the other thread was dead to rights about an EA with some cybersex/nude picture exchanges.

I found nude pictures of her on her phone by using deleted photo recovery software. I checked our cell phone bill and the useage, and she texts him all the time.

I installed a packet sniffer on our home network that looks for specific keywords coming through very specific ports designated for FB IM and Chat.

She is talking about doing stuff with him that I never thought she would EVER do. It is like she is a different person. He is talking about using video conferencing to pleasure themselves together.

OK so I have her nailed. Now what? I now know that she wants a D because she is getting what she wants out of this EA, and she feels she has something to go to after she moves out.

I DO NOT want to reveal how I got this info. She knows I found the pictures, and now she keeps her phone with her at all times.

But I will simply not stand for this in my own house. Any time I ask her about it she gets sooooooo defensive, and she says "I am allowed to talk to my friends", and she's very angry. She said she felt she was justified in taking the nude pics because I didn't give her the attention she needed.

Should I just confront her? My family support is very weak right now, as my living relatives are both very sick. I can't talk to anyone about this, except maybe her mom who has said from the beginning that I am her son, and could talk to her and she'd NEVER let my wife know.