Can't you just say to chat with some friends? That they were talking about chatting sometimes on it and I wanted to be able to join in once in awhile.
No need for the bb to come up at all.
Chatting with friends is no big deal. But don't want to cause you trouble if you think it would. Just a suggestion!
Well, I want to read the Co-dependent no More book all the way through again!
Did you find it helpful? My C recommended it and I did think it had some good stuff in it.
Getting pretty well past that stage now so maybe won't read it again. But it never hurts to shore up the info for future reference!
P.S. This is not advice I would have taken before because I just would not have been able to see it.
BUT I think you would just be happier in general if you did go out and do some things without your H. Fun things for Karen. Like the walk you did last week. Look at the mood you came home in!! I can absolutly tell you these things work, for your happiness, and you saw from my IM's that I was much worse than you ever thought about being!
Pam
"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us"
