Just found out she already filed

[ImprovedRomeo]

I liked the part that said "You need to be healthy yourself to become a "role model" in order for another to recognize that there is something "wrong" with them that needs changing. Loving and caring for yourself is the most healthy selfish thing you can do for another."

wii, that's why I drink V8 lol! I'm healthy as a tomato.

Antlers, those are some wise words, thanks for sharing your thoughts. You're right our own destinity is determined by us.

Alice, you are so right about that...I did make huge efforts, sacrifices and took chances and risks to win her back and I did get her back but my changes alone weren't enough to keep her and eventually she left because she didn't want to change herself, in fact, she never even bothered telling me what was bothering her if anything. Just like before, one day she packs up and leaves.

I'm so sorry I've been somewhat MIA. Just struggling big time with my own crap.

No need to say sorry...I know things have been rough on you lately and it sucks that you don't even get to post here anymore.

We'll just keep throwing each others' advice back around til it sinks into one of our thick skulls- deal?

I'll make that deal...I bet you'll get tired of repeating first lol

As for the meetup group, I'm keep an eye on their various events but I'm OK where I am right now. It's comfortable for me this way. I'm not feeling anxious to get out and I'm not wanting anything or anyone in particular.

Thanks for the well wishes and hope you and all of you guys have a good peaceful night. Until tomorrow...