"and yes, i did the cupcake thing. he was home but did not answer the door."

So cupcakes did not work.

What now?

Why did cupcakes fail?

"I am not on FB and I don't plan on joining"

Well I guess we will have to hash it out without knowing.

"i'm not really back. there is a lot of stuff i'm working through. so i may not be very active here."

I really want you to post.. I need you to be more active.

It is your choice.

Relax
Eat
Think
Act normal
React.. Smartly.
Do something different.
Emulate.
Do Work.

Lets get "RETARDED" in here.