Hi Pam,
I can install it. H might ask why I did. What shall I say?

I'm just a whiny biatch today!!!

I know I can do more "fun" stuff myself, but I want to do fun stuff with him too. I want him to feel comfortable going out with me. i know, i know, it will come with time. as you can see, i'm not very good with patience.

i want to leave work early (i'm scared to say that i AM!), go to the store, get some sushi, maybe by h a chop or something, get some movies, and curl up. when he comes home, i'll tell him that I don't feel good and that if he wants to go somewhere to go ahead... i don't want him to feel obligated to stay with me, but he'll also have something to eat if he wants to stay home.

I don't think you are being rude. I would love to be able to detach. Oh, that book you mentioned "Co-dependent No More," is by Melody Beattie. I have that somewhere too. (In the abyss of my bedroom ) She talks about detaching and not being blown away by every wind.

ttys.
karen
did someone mention not getting emailed every time they get a new post on their fav's? that happens to me sometimes. (or doesn't happen)