You are feeling stressed and emotional. I KNOW this feeling only too well.
I also know what you are saying about him doing little things to help you deal with your problems. But unfortunately it doesn't work that way. This is something Karen is going to have to do alone and not for her H or her R but for herself. Because this isn't the person Karen wants to be. Karen is still letting his doing or not doing things control her actions and moods. I also know this very well as it is one of the things I had to work on and am still working on right now.
I not only let David's actions and moods control mine, I pretty much let whomever I am around do that for me. We have to take responsibility and choose how we want to feel. It isn't easy, please don't think I am making light of your feelings. I am still working on it and at a guess I will always have to watch this area for myself. But I can promise you when you take the responsibility totally for your own feelings that you FEEL so much better. You are back in control of your life. No one else can make Karen feel anything Karen doesn't want or choose to feel.
I hope some of this spiel is helpful to you this morning! But if nothing else is, please don't make any decisions right now. It is NOT the time.
I almost forgot!
UP UP and AWAY with the PMA today!!!
It is going to be a great day and just look at your list of things you are thankful for this morning!
Or even better write a new list for today!
Pam
"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us"
