Need advice for my sitch...

[MrBond]

that was after she lied to me and went out the night before and was hanging out with her lady coworker the next day. "This all after i told her that I love her, want to marry her, and am willing to do everything necessary to make that a reality and ask her if she was."

THIS is pursuit. I didn't say to promise her the world. I said to tell her that she was welcome home. How old are you again? I think you need to stick your vitals in your sig. line.