that was after she lied to me and went out the night before and was hanging out with her lady coworker the next day. This all after i told her that I love her, want to marry her, and am willing to do everything necessary to make that a reality and ask her if she was. She couldnt give me an answer and said she needed to go to the grandma's house for the weekend to sort it out.
She went alright, for 2 hours and then left the kids there.