I understand what you are saying, but I dont want to give up hope on the mother of my child and the woman i love.
I didn't suggest you give up hope on your wife. I suggested you get out, do something interesting, meet people, take a little time off from stressing about your relationship. Your wife lies to you about where she is going til all hours of the morning, you get mad, tell her not to come home, she says ok lets talk custody.
There's still hope. There's always hope. You just need to be the reason she asks to come back home.